I was always quick to beg because he was a novice in relationships, then one day we had a major argument, he walked out and none of us was ready to resolve or take the blame( in Akon voice) a week turned to two, three, four then five. Before the argument I was bereaved and he didn't understand, all he wanted was my attention which I couldn't give him. It boils back to experience.
I called him up one day, to inform him I was travelling to Chicago the next day. He was shocked I was already making my own decisions, what shocked him most was I had grown fond of a client (I mistakenly called him my client's name) and I didn't bother about my own him, (the truth is- the client was there for me when I was bereaved- something He never did) I was away for 5weeks and it was difficult for him to get in touch with me.
When I came back, I was no longer fond of him, usually my luggage would have contained half of his things but this time I just got him a sweat shirt.
In 10weeks we threw away our amazing relationship of 5years, the relationship a lot of our friends used as prayer point. Distance does make the heart grow apart, communication is key.
In few weeks time, I will be setting down for good but the shocking thing is, I still don't love my fiancé as much as I love my him-- they say we love people in stages, others say there's always that person you love but can't have...
You can go to bed angry the first time... Don't go to bed angry with the same person for so long, you might be taking him for granted and lose him for good.
Congrats to the lady who inspired this post, I pray you find happiness in your new home, your fiancé is a wonderful person, its time for you to leave the past behind and start a new life with your hubby.
Till next time, kiss and make up by the 3rd day