We usually do alot of shopping – shoes, clothes, groceries, make-up, weaves, bags, boyfriends and even husband. Sometimes, Yoruba people say– May your husband not be just a boyfriend and vice versa. It means May you marry the right person... All I know is one girl’s boyfriend will be another girl’s husband.
For a couple of weekends, we engaged in window shopping for cars and the “a single girl can’t get this car or that car always pops up”. I love the RAV4 - I said. You will have to wait till you get married, your husband will buy and handle the maintenance cost another person said. My friend , if you buy this car, what do you expect your boyfriend to drive? I was asked. To get a good man, you have to tone down oo! I had to change my car to a smaller one, a friend confessed. This is serious business o.
An unmarried girl has to remain humble car wise – Kai, Asake, hope you won’t carry last o!!!! Lol
I understand a sizeable number of guys have complex and some ladies also over do the flashing but I don’t understand why one should also lower their IQ to get a guy..
Below are my questions
· Must you lower your financial standard to get a spouse?
· Must you lower your IQ to get a partner?
· What more should be lowered?
· Why should you lower anything sef?
Till next post, fall naturally or lower the standard.