Self encouragement

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It’s been a long while. 
I have written several posts in my head but it’s a constant battle between what I think I should share on my blog and what I shouldn’t. Not much has changed between my last post and now, but a lot has changed.

I am hoping with the post, I encourage myself to write on this blog again.

Till next time, don’t give up on yourself

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  1. UnknownJune 19, 2020 at 5:26 PM

    Since Monday 4th November 2019, you havent written anything on your blog? Why?
    I stumbled on your blog in a very funny way.....and Alhamdulillah, i got stuck...from Omitted to Abewo to Maybe to ile-po to self encouragement...I just kept reading.

    I will be happy to connect with you. Also went through your Linkedln profile...impressive.

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    1. ÀSÀKÉ-Ọ̀KÍNOctober 1, 2020 at 3:07 PM

      Thank you very much. You can reach out to me on Instagram

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